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Welcome to Clayton Counselling Services. We are located in Duncan, British Columbia and are pleased to offer extensive counselling service, with over thirty years of professional experience. We are dedicated to building healthy, thriving, communities so don’t hesitate to click below and learn more about our services.

About Our Service
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Proudly delivering over fifty-five years of combined, professional counselling services for families and individuals. We are highly specialized in Addiction, Cognitive Therapy, Anger Management and much more. Don’t hesitate to click below and learn more.

About Clayton Counselling
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Dr. Clayton, B.A. : M.Div. : D.Min : PhD (Psych) RCC has been providing exceptional counselling services in Ontario and British Columbia since 1997. A key member of several associations, Dr. Clayton has clearly demonstrated the highest quality counselling services in his community. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

About Dr. Kent
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Jan Clayton: B.A. (Psych); M.A. (Psych) is a highly respected Family Therapist with over twenty-five years of professional Clinical Counselling Experience, specializing in adolescents, families, individuals and couples. Don’t hesitate to click below and learn more.

About Jan
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Clayton Counselling Services is pleased to offer a wide variety of effective, professional support services for Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Family, Addictions and so much more. Click here to learn more about our services and book a consultation, today! We look forward to hearing from you.

Our Counselling Services
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Today is the right day to become a healthier, happier, better version of yourself. We are here for you and no one should go through addiction alone. Our professional counselors are here to help! Click below to learn more and get started!

Substance Addictions
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We help you focus on your triggers and managing those situations, with our Anger Management therapy. Don’t hesitate to click below to learn more. We are ready, willing and available to be of assistance.

Anger Management
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Anxiety and Depression are best dealt with through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. CBT has been widely shown as an effective treatment of phobias, depression and anxiety. Click below to learn more.

Anxiety and Depression
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Bereavement is the grief and mourning experience following the death of someone important to you. While it’s an inevitable part of life—something that virtually all of us go through at some point—losing someone you love can be one of the most painful experiences you’ll ever have to endure. Don’t hesitate to learn more, we are here to help!

Bereavement Grief and Loss
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Bullying isn't just linked to depression and anxiety, it can also lead to more subtle effects such as problems with trust and self-esteem. Click below to learn more!

Anger Bullying and Depression
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We are pleased to offer expert child custody evaluation services, by our trained mental health professionals. Let us compile all the necessary details and reporting in the best interests of your child.

Child Custody Evaluations
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Understanding and adjusting to a new culture can come as shock to some people. Whether you are now living in a new culture or are trying to bridge cultural gaps in your relationships, it can be difficult to navigate cultural boundaries. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Cross Cultural Issues
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You can count on Clayton Counselling for Trauma and Crisis Intervention for our variety of approaches to provide psychological and emotional support to those experiencing stress in the immediate aftermath of traumatic event. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Crisis and Trauma Intervention
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If you are experiencing domestic abuse or family violence, please tell us as our services are highly geared towards you circumstances. Click below to learn more.

Domestic and Family Violence
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Family conflict occurs every day. Typically, when family members have different views or beliefs that clash, this can lead to family conflict. Sometimes, when people misunderstand each other and jump to the wrong conclusion, this can often lead to arguments and resentment. Don't hesitate click below and learn more.

Family Conflicts
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Our services are invaluable during conflicts. Our professional services can help families resolve conflict in a practical, safe and positive manner. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Family Mediation / Resolution
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Clayton Counselling is pleased to offer professional Marriage and Family Therapy Counselling Service in British Columbia. You have come to the right place if you are seeking relationship counseling for yourself, significant other or family member. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Marriage / Family Counselling
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Clayton Counselling is pleased to offer the equivalent, hours-long conversation about your hopes, expectations and dreams as your prepare for the fine institution of marriage. We are here to help every step of the way! Don’t hesitate to click on the link below to learn more.

Marriage Preperation
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Let’s face it: Parents face difficult issues such as discipline, bad decision making of their kids, poor friend choices and school problems, all the time. The single parenting struggles aren’t always as much about the child, but the parent’s issues that make it more complicated. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Parenting Problems
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The average individual will change careers several times during his or her working life, according to career statistics. With an ever increase number of career choices, Clayton Counselling is here to help you on your life journey. Click below and learn more.

Personal and Career Changes
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Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is classified as a mental health condition, triggered by a terrifying event – either experiencing it or witnessing it. Some symptoms may include nightmares, anxiety, flashbacks as well as uncontrollable thoughts about the event. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Post Tramatic Stress Disorder
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Fear of Public Speaking or public speaking anxiety is a type of social anxiety and single most commonly feared situation. Clayton Counselling has helped hundreds with the verbal communication skills to improve careers, social life and overall confidence. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Public Speaking
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Clayton Counselling is pleased to offer professional Relationship Counselling Service. We help couples create more closeness and security with each other by exploring issues such as communication, infidelity and communication. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Relationship Counselling
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Self esteem therapy (cognitive behavioral therapy) is effective in the treatment of low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. We can help you recognize the cause and monitor negative beliefs, doubt, and anxiety in order to alleviate painful feelings which will help you take constructive action. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Self Esteem
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Clayton Counselling is pleased to offer a wide spectrum of techniques and therapies aimed at controlling a person’s level of stress, particularly chronic stress, usually for the purposes of and for the motive of improving everyday functioning. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Stress Management
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According to proponents of the concept, sexual addition, also known as sex addiction, is a state usually characterized by compulsive participation or engagement in sexual activity, particularly sexual intercourse, despite negative consequences. Click below and learn more.

Sexual Addiction
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Sexual dysfunction applies to both males and females. It can include pain during intercourse, involuntary painful contraction of the muscles, lack of interest or trouble having sex or enjoying sex. Don’t hesitate to click below and learn more!

Sexual Dysfunction
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Child Sexual Abuse, also called Child Molestation is a form of child abuse in which an adult or older adolescent uses a child for sexual stimulation. If you’re a survivor of childhood sex abuse, Clayton Counselling is here to help. Don’t hesitate to click below and learn more.

Survivor of Childhood Sex Abuse
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more

Our Service Areas
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Counselling Crofton
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Counselling in Chemainus
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Counselling in Duncan
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Counselling in Ladysmith
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To help serve you better, we are conveniently located just a few moments from the Trans Canada Highway. We are pleased to be of service through our local communities, so don’t hesitate to contact us for your next appointment. We look forward to hearing from you. Don't hesitate to click below and learn more.

Counselling in Mill Bay
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A frequently asked questions list is often used in articles, websites, email lists, and online forums where common questions tend to recur, for example through posts or queries by new users related to common knowledge gaps. This is no different in the counselling world, so we have compiled a list of frequently asked questions for your convenience. Don't hesitate to click below to learn more.

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Connecting with Kent or Jan at Clayton Consulting, couldn’t be easier. We are pleased to offer our existing customers and potential clients with a number of easy to use and convenient contact methods to reach out to us. Don’t hesitate to connect with us and we will be pleased to answer all of your questions. Click below to learn more.

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Business Hours

Mon - Fri: 9AM - 7PM
Sat: 9AM - 3PM

Phone

(250) 597-8274

Address

6038 Sterling Dr., Unit 7 Duncan BC V9L 5K4 Canada

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Relationship Counselling

If you have the feeling of being stuck in an unhealthy relationship that prevents you from feeling joy and excitement or frustration with dating applications and pressure of online dating, rest assured, your not alone – epically if your dealing with raw emotion from past relationships.

All of these negative experiences can leave anyone feeling alone and defeated, wondering if something is wrong with them and wondering if they’ll every find someone to share their life with. Working with Clayton Counselling means you’ll receive a highly specialized service, that will help you break free from unhealthy patterns and hurt from past relationship and help you build more confidence in yourself.

How can Clayton Counselling help you find the love of your dreams? We will work with you to:

Being Single and Dating

Do you find yourself dating the same sort of people over and over? Do your relationships seem to follow a similar pattern? Do you feel that people you are meeting do not want the same thing as you or are not ready to commit, emotionally? Do you feel anxious about committing to long-term relationship proposals?

Clayton Relationship Counselling can help you learn and understand about your attachment style and how it impacts the way you connect with and relate to you partner. Start with yourself to change the relationship patterns and become more aware of your responses and choices in dating.

 

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Lack of Confidence in Dating

Dating involves getting out of your comfort zone and taking risks. Unfortunately, there is no guarantee that a relationship will work out or that you will not be hurt. You may lack confidence because your past relationships have not been successful. You may have some difficult in attracting potential partners. Or you may have be out of the dating scene for a while. Clayton Counselling will help you with your confidence by identifying past areas of life where you have been hurt and beliefs you have about yourself that me preventing you from meeting the right person. We help you feel more positive and confident about yourself.

Emotional Connection and Intimacy

Do you feel a lack of desire for your partner? Are you feeling disconnected from you partner? Perhaps your partner is not ready to seek out any sort of therapy? Here at Clayton Counselling, we can help you explore and become much more aware of your own triggers, emotions, and reactive behaviors, as well at look at how they contribute to negative patterns in your relationship. It can also help you learn to be more responsive and engaged with your partner.

Recovering from Affair / Infidelity

You’ve discovered turmoil in your relationship and your trust has been broken. You are ambivalent about staying or leaving the relationship. You are unsure if you can ever establish trust with your partner again. Here at Clayton Counselling, we can help you process and explore the affair and infidelity, express painful emotions, and reclaim your agency. If you are the one who is involved with an affair, speaking to us can you help better process and understand what may have promoted the infidelity, cope with feelings of shame and guilt, and talk about your concerns and needs in building a long-lasting relationship.

Healing from Breaking Up

You’ve discovered turmoil in your relationship and your trust has been broken. You are ambivalent about staying or leaving the relationship. You are unsure if you can ever establish trust with your partner again. Here at Clayton Counselling, we can help you process and explore the affair and infidelity, express painful emotions, and reclaim your agency. If you are the one who is involved with an affair, speaking to us can you help better process and understand what may have promoted the infidelity, cope with feelings of shame and guilt, and talk about your concerns and needs in building a long-lasting relationship.

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